Viviantrading number 2 for love
October 17th 2007 13:16
That's the thing with failing relationships. You can always refuse to answer any question by repeating it. "Do you love me?" "Do you want a divorce?" "Are you happy?" Your partner is invariably as ambivalent as you are, and if he or she is human - that is to say, cowardly but at the same time full of moral self-righteouness- then he or she will not commit themselves through any expression of passion or commitment. After all, the absence of passion or commitment is the reason why the relationship is failing, surely? (Nick Hornby)
So what is the thing with healthy relationships? The abscence of misery is not inevitably the proof for a positve answer to the question "Do you love me", but rather the poor attempt of neglect. Never underestimate the power of denial or never underestimate the desire to perfection, which seems inappropriate in a relationship which is eventually the sum of two person's opinion of righteouness and wrong-doing. How to be good is now-a-days a mixture of conscious, charities and altruism. Charity, from its origin also translated as love, starts at home. Home as in the bedroom, which is at a young ages the playground for experiments, pain, abuse, fantasies and love practice. Which one cannot be sure of its utter standing within one's life. So one wanders from bedroom to kitchen table and back over the bathroom, just to do the same thing in later life: stumbling rather than wandering from marriage to fling to affairs to divorce. Eventually arriving on your mental grave, looking up, seeing the sky, failing to observe the slightest glow of hope. Mentally hopeless and physically beaten-up. Looking back, one would know that he'd give is life to trade the experience of number two with the doubtlessness of love.
Whats left to say: Maroon 5: I tried my best to feed her appetite, I kept her coming every nite, it's so hard to keep her satified. This love has taken its toll on me she said good-bye so many times before.
So what is the thing with healthy relationships? The abscence of misery is not inevitably the proof for a positve answer to the question "Do you love me", but rather the poor attempt of neglect. Never underestimate the power of denial or never underestimate the desire to perfection, which seems inappropriate in a relationship which is eventually the sum of two person's opinion of righteouness and wrong-doing. How to be good is now-a-days a mixture of conscious, charities and altruism. Charity, from its origin also translated as love, starts at home. Home as in the bedroom, which is at a young ages the playground for experiments, pain, abuse, fantasies and love practice. Which one cannot be sure of its utter standing within one's life. So one wanders from bedroom to kitchen table and back over the bathroom, just to do the same thing in later life: stumbling rather than wandering from marriage to fling to affairs to divorce. Eventually arriving on your mental grave, looking up, seeing the sky, failing to observe the slightest glow of hope. Mentally hopeless and physically beaten-up. Looking back, one would know that he'd give is life to trade the experience of number two with the doubtlessness of love.
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